Your Body is Not the Problem… It’s the Solutoin

Somatic Trauma & Attachment Recovery Coach

When you go through overwhelming experiences without adequate support (external and/or internal) to process them, your body stores them for a rainy day…

You subconsciously suppressed how you truly felt about what happened when you didn’t have the resources to let it process you. And hey, this mechanism IS NOT AN ILLNESS, it is an adaptive and intelligent response to a lack of what you need. It is not a personality flaw either.

Eventually, if a felt sense of safety is not re-established (or established for the first time), the nervous system will stay in a survival state. Your body won’t complete it’s natural cycle of discharging the activation because it believes that the threat is still present.

When your body reaches its limit (of stored trauma***), you begin to manifest “symptoms.”

These symptoms look like all-or-nothing thinking, brain fog, relational instability, mood swings, struggling to “shut off,” procrastination, anxiousness, depression, lack of trust in self/others/the world, insecurity, self-doubt, suicidal ideation, feeling disconnected (and more.)

That “rainy day” is emotional flashbacks. Moments where you are transported in time and space back to the event itself. This can be scary.

And yet, this is a sacred opportunity for you to meet yourself with the loving-kind presence (a flavour of awareness that I call “Fiercely Sweet” in Radical Rebirth™) that you needed in the moment of the event.

Radical Rebirthis a full-body return home to you.
A deep devotional yes to your body’s brilliance & your ability to become the The Fiercely Sweet One that you always deserved, needed and can become now.

You are not too much.
You are not broken.
You don’t need to control your nervous system.
You get to work with it to re-establish safety, rewire the subconscious imprints of trauma stored in your body, and re-engage fully with yourself, others & life again.

If you’re craving a space where your unraveling is sacred -

Where your nervous system is honoured, not pathologized -

Where your soul gets to soften without being silenced…

🕯️ Welcome in. This is your Radical Rebirth™

***Stored trauma consists of the following, and looks different for everyone and every event that is not processed yet kept in a holding pattern in your body: Belief wounds (e.g. I am unworthy, people hurt me, life is scary, etc.), Unprocessed stuck emotions (e.g. the cycle of grief is frozen in rage, anger, devastation, fear, embarrassment, sadness, etc.), Adrenalized nervous system survival stress patterns that are incomplete (e.g. stuck in fight or flight, freeze, fawning, functional freeze, etc.)

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ABOUT ME

Danielle Bird

My work was birthed by my frozen, fearfully-avoidant (disorganized) embodiment, and an insatiable knowing that I wasn’t as helpless as I felt.

I know what it’s like to feel gone inside your own body - I’ve lived the shame, the shutdown, the silence.

I performed healing because the alternative felt too messy, too wild, too much, too unknown.

I also know what it takes to come back.

To thaw. To reclaim. To actually feel again - and not get swallowed up by it. I’m not here to fix you.

I’m here to walk with you as the parts of you remember their wholeness.

As your nervous system rewrites the story. As your voice, your body, your boundaries - come back online.

This is the work I was born to do…Not just because I mastered it. But because I lived it.

Client Testimonials

  • “I had the honour of being able to work with Danielle. I didn’t even realize how stuck in functional freeze I was or how I was still intellectualizing my emotions. Dani helped me get back in touch with my physical body and what my emotions would make me feel instead of the story behind them. I’m trusting myself and my decisions more, I’m listening to what my body wants, and as a result I feel like I’m flowing through life with much more ease. Ive returned to university after almost 4 years away to finish my degree, I procrastinate less, my executive dysfunction isn’t in control of my life anymore, and I find myself surprised that peace and gratitude has become my center pillar.” - SR

  • "I highly recommend Danielle's services. She helped me understand my past, how the soft animal that is my body works, and by sharing eye-opening strategies to recover, have hope for a healthy future. I'm an intellectual, logical person who loves talking out my problems but this was not a supplement to talk therapy, it was just as critical to understanding my "perplexing" (yet appropriate) behavior from a nervous system perspective in order to fully heal. I also found her so soothing - her aura alone made my nervous system feel safe. I'm so glad I found her!"

    - CS

  • "Omg Danielle… I can function again?! This is a time to celebrate. I think I’m cured. Like not of everything. But of the functional freeze. I feel like I can’t go back to functional freeze anymore, like it’s gone… You know, if I’d known a Danielle in 2015, I wouldn’t have spent two years being unable to work. That was a lot more expensive than a coaching fee. And that’s not even taking into account the sheer amount of suffering. You are so very gifted. I knew on that Eventbrite call there were answers that only you had. I never imagined I’d get results like this though. I’m literally crying. Which is not something that functional freeze allows.” - AL